How Do You Shut Down Your Cheating Behavior?
It’s easy for micro-cheating behavior traits to sneak up on you. You may be in the midst of another cycle of cheating or pre-cheating behavior and not even recognize it.… Read More
Married but Dating
I created a couple of profiles for myself one of the more popular “married but dating” websites. I wanted to understand what it was like to cheat online. … Read More
How to Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair – Five Things to Think About
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) The following is an exercise to help you prepare to disclose an affair to your spouse. When revealing infidelity to your partner, it is important to handle … Read More
Before You Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) If you’re having an affair, and you want to disclose the affair to your spouse before you are confronted, here’s an exercise that may help you prepare. Use … Read More
The Casual Dating Affair
The “Casual Dating Affair” is one that evolves slowly. It sneaks up on you. Perhaps this has happened to you. You’re only going out for drinks, or for lunch, or for an occasional “business” dinner, with a friend or colleague. … Read More
Cuffing Season Leads People to Stray
Ashley Madison recently revealed that more men sign up for their online dating site during the month of October than any other month of the year. Ashley Madison is a website for married people to find other married people to … Read More
Understanding Infidelity & How to Recover From It
Defining infidelity seems simple. Having sex with someone outside of your committed partnership means cheating, right? But today an affair can be tricky to define and identify. Below I share a selection of my articles and videos that can help … Read More
When Do Cheaters Talk to Their Lovers?
Twenty five to sixty five percent of people cheat at some point in their marriage. The results of infidelity research are non-conclusive: we aren’t really sure exactly how many people cheat. Cheating is based on dishonesty, and those polled lie … Read More
Recovering from Infidelity is a Process, Not an Event
Lots of couples go through it. Not everyone blogs about it. And very few post photos. In a recent piece by Yolonda Jones, both blog and photos show how powerful and poignant the process of recovering from an affair can … Read More
How Do You Define Cheating?
The Internet is often brought up in couples conflicts and blamed for infidelity. There are more ways to cheat today than ever before. What Counts as Cheating? And each couple may define cheating differently. The types of infidelity can range … Read More