Erotic Recovery After Infidelity

For those of you who read my newsletters, follow my blog, or have heard me speak or been in a workshop of session with me, you know that I believe in the power of erotic connection.  I believe its more … Read More

Couples Therapy Can Hurt Your Sex Life

Yes, you heard it here.  From the couple’s therapist herself.  But its true.  Most couples therapy focuses on dealing with the day to day conflicts of the companionship aspect of every day life.  This creates safety and decreases conflict – … Read More

Monogamy? Can it work?

How many people cheat? In 2002 studies revealed that  50-60% of married men and 45-55% of married women engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship.  That means about half of all men and women will have … Read More

Can your Relationship Survive an Affair?

When I posted this question to my fanpage on Facebook (look for me at “Getting the Sex You Want”) – One fan commented,  “No! Once they have done it, they will always do it.”  Many people agree that once a … Read More

Couples and Sex

For most couples sex is development.  Not elemental, my dear Watson, but developmental.  Early in a relationship, sex feels like everything.  It makes or breaks the decision to stay or go.  It sucks you in or spits you out (so … Read More

The Spring Wakes Up the Squirrels in the Attic – and not just Metaphorically

It’s April – beautiful Spring days full of new beginnings.  New life.  And new obstacles.  I have new life brewing, in my attic.  Baby squirrels apparently.  Birthed by the community that has ripped their way through the siding into my … Read More

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