For those of you who read my newsletters, follow my blog, or have heard me speak or been in a workshop of session with me, you know that I believe in the power of erotic connection. I believe its more than just sex – that erotic language in a relationship is everything. Having an erotic and passionate life means you feel alive – and if you can have that with a partner that you love, there is no greater joy.
But what happens when the love is challenged? What happens when an affair or porn abuse or addiction compromises the best relationship and one or both of you cant get past it.
Sometimes breaking up is the only option.
But if you are like a lot of couples these days you might not want to trade in your partner for another model. Maybe you still love each other, and suspect there might be a way to get past an affair.
Moving on from infidelity means not only learning what happened to each of you during this time but finding out what happened to the relationship and deciding on a new relationship vision going forward.
And that new relationship vision is not about forgiveness. We all know “Im sorry” only goes skin deep.
A new relationship means finding a new erotic and emotional connection with each other.
Can it happen?
find out more – contact me Dr Tammy Nelson, and watch for my next book.
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