Yes, you heard it here. From the couple’s therapist herself. But its true. Most couples therapy focuses on dealing with the day to day conflicts of the companionship aspect of every day life. This creates safety and decreases conflict – which is what you want – but may do nothing for your erotic life.
Erotic connection does not demand a conflict free relationship. The exact opposite may be true. You can still have conflict and still work on your sex life. Working on the day to day frustrations may distract you from the real thing that may bring you together, your intimacy.
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