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Facing Reality, The New Monogamy

Facing Reality, The New Monogamy Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. Facing Reality, The New Monogamy http://www.alternet.org/vision/147468/facing_reality%2C_the_%22new_monogamy%22_is_keeping_relationships_together Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. My article has … Read More

How to Avoid an Affair

Question from a reader: “So how do I avoid cheating on my husband?  I love him, but I’m bored.  And there’s this guy at work.  Well, he’s not anyone I would leave my husband for. I mean we have kids, … Read More

Should we have a “new monogamy” and swing?

From a reader: So what you are saying is that the New Monogamy means that I should tell my husband that we should start an open marriage?  He really wants to go to a swingers club but I dont want … Read More

The New Monogamy in this month’s Psychotherapy Networker

The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson How Far Should We Go? If there’s anything fundamental to the meaning of marriage in Western society, it’s monogamy. In fact, monogamy may be the only thing that remains essential to most people’s idea … Read More

Phases of Recovery from Affairs

There are phases to the recovery of infidelity; it doesnt happen all at once – but the good news is that it can happen – if you want to recover.  Sometimes an affair means its time to end the relationship. … Read More

Infidelity Recovery

Ok, can you really get over it? She sat in my office, looking crestfallen.  Her husband had an affair, and she was devastated, she said. He saw her for a year, apparently, and they slept together once a week. I … Read More

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