Most people, if they could arrange it, would want the cake and the marriage, too. But could you have it if you discussed it openly and instead of non-consensual nonmonogamy you created a consensual non-monogamy agreement?… Read More
Guest Post by Rachael Pace You’ve been divorced for some time now and you’re starting to feel the loneliness kick in. Then your friend asks the dreaded question, “When are you going to get back out there?” The very thought … Read More
Everyone gets anxious before a big event. Making a major shift from one part of your life to another is what I call a threshold event. It’s normal to feel nervous before a graduation, a job change, or a wedding. … Read More
Wedding season is almost upon us. Will you be tying the knot? If so, I’m sure you’re receiving tons of advice. But there are several things that people don’t typically tell the soon-to-be-married. I was interviewed recently by Wedding Wire … Read More
You have heard of ‘Seven Year Itch.’ It’s a measurement of time that people throw around to suggest marriage goes downhill after the first seven years. The phrase is not based on anything psychological or scientifically sound, it is not … Read More
In the next video for YourTango, John Gray, LiYana Silver, Debi Berndt and I continue our discussion with what makes monogamy work. Are we biologically equipped to spend our lives with one person? Is monogamy even realistic? Our changing culture … Read More
You thought your relationship with your partner was perfect. Happily ever after wasn’t just a dream, it was your reality. Then, suddenly, you learn your man has been cheating on you. You wonder: Is there any way our relationship can be salvaged? In this video I answer … Read More
The bestselling book, “Getting the Love You Want” written by Harville Hendrix, teaches couples a powerful form of healing that Hendrix calls Imago Relationship Therapy. This theory says that we never choose our partner by accident. Our mate, for good … Read More
My latest article on Huffington Post addresses what to do when you want to end an affair and move on: You are still hiding the affair. In fact, as you lay in bed with your lover you think about your … Read More