Jealousy never feels good – but is it really all that bad? Some people think it helps keep the spark alive, and it might also point to a potential deeper issue that needs to be addressed within a partnership. In … Read More
I was mentioned in an article in The Bullet: Emotional cheating just as bad, if not worse, than physical Emotional cheating is the act of holding strong feelings for someone other than a romantic partner and it can cause more … Read More
A very interesting article came across my path this week – New ‘Christian Swingers’ Dating Site Offers Faithful Couples a Chance to ‘Hookup’. Think this is a very controversial topic? Many of the ideas and points in “The New Monogamy” … Read More
There’s a common belief that increasing communication in a relationship can solve all the woes, but that’s not necessarily true. The important thing to consider is – what is communication? Communication is more than words spoken, emailed, texted, chatted. Effective … Read More
I’m proud to announce I will be contributing to a new website for couples seeking more intimacy, passion, patience, communication, love, and happiness – WeWantMoreNow.com. I am joining efforts with a wide variety of other experts on relationships, parenting, affair … Read More
What does it take for a women to be successful? How do you define success? Family or Career Woman? In the latest video for YourTango, Relationship experts Debi Berndt, John Gray, LiYana Silver and I sat down with Melanie Gorman … Read More
Are you having problems with your sex life? Recovering from an affair? Wondering if you or your spouse may be addicted to sex? Then you don’t want to miss this enlightening and provocative conversation I had with the wonderful Wendy … Read More
A study out of Florida State University has found that spouses who are insecure, clingy, and anxious about abandonment are most likely to cheat on their partners. This finding supports attachment theory – some people fear abandonment so deeply that … Read More
Last Sunday I shared a study that said that texting and other digital communication decreased face-to-face communication and hurt relationships. No surprise. (Texting Officially Disastrous to Relationships Says Study). But could communicating by text be better than not communicating at … Read More
Sometimes marriages don’t survive the trials and tribulations of an affair and divorce can be the result. Even in the most congenial, peaceful divorce there is a loss of the self, and a grieving process. Divorce can be a profoundly … Read More