Your wedding is over; the planning, shopping, spending, arranging, and the big day are now behind you. It’s time to celebrate your new marriage, just the two of you. What can go wrong?
Actually, a lot can and probably will. Most honeymooners make three common assumptions; and all of them can turn out to be mistaken assumptions. Challenge these before you go and avoid being disappointed on what can be one of the happiest weeks of your life.
One: We Will Have Awesome Sex On Our Wedding Night. Actually, less than half of all couples have sex on their wedding night. You will probably both be tired after the big day, and you might fall asleep or prefer a hot bath or shower to wild wedding night lovemaking. The combination of drinking and exhaustion doesn’t always make for a fantasy wedding night. Also, an unrealistic expectation that things should be sexually perfect can put a lot of pressure on you both.
Don’t be disappointed if you fall asleep or if the sex is not as wonderful as you hoped. You have the rest of your lives to create a great sex life. Appreciate your first alone moment as a couple; snuggle in together and the sex will either happen or it will come later. Either way, the wedding night will always be special because it is the first night you spend as husband and wife.
Two: We Will Create A Perfect Relationship In Six Days And Seven Nights. Your honeymoon may be a little more stressful then you think. Travel to a different country, being in a new environment or eating strange food can all contribute to tension and may not be as relaxing as you imagined. Many couples are shocked to realize that they may argue or snap at each other during their honeymoon travels. They might even think, “Is there something wrong with our relationship?
Think of this trip as an emotional detox and let yourselves unwind slowly. Avoid the mistake of expecting that this trip will determine the rest of your lives together. Give it a few days before you really settle into a routine of true relaxation and easy companionship. If you don’t stress about it, you will eventually hit your stride and get into the vacation groove together.
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