When you first get married, your vision of a romantic life can get lost quickly in the day-to-day management of the business of a shared life. Shortly after the wedding, you may find that you both go back to work and to the routine of getting up in the morning, running out the door, and rushing home to dinner, then sitting curled up on the couch in front of the television; domesticity can set in faster than you can unpack your bags from the honeymoon.
How do you create some of that romance now that you are living together as husband and wife? Marriage doesn’t have to mean that you give up romance. In fact, now that you’re married and living together, it should mean that you make your intimate time together even more of a priority. The best way to transition from single and dating to a romantic married couple is to make your home the place where every evening feels like a mini-honeymoon.
Is your home set up for romance? Is your bedroom a honeymoon suite arranged only for lovemaking and intimate nights together? Take a look around your bedroom and see if your space is set up to create your ultimate love life. Even the best of romantic intentions can be stalemated by a bedroom setting that is not created for love but instead holds stuck energy and clutter.
Examine your bedroom for clues to your RQ: your Romantic Quotient. Your RQ is a rating that reflects three things: the romance, sexiness and relaxation of your bedroom environment. A higher RQ means your bedroom is more relaxed, sexier and more romantic than a lower RQ space. These questions will get you started on figuring out how to change your RQ today.
Take Your Romantic Quotient
(To take your RQ quiz, go to the Huffington Post article and find out how to improve your RQ today).
Then contact me Dr Tammy Nelson for more info on improving your score!
tammy@drtammynelson.com, your RQ expert!
My team and I can help you in an onsite home assessment and personalize your RQ makeover today.
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