This story about a happy polyamorous family from Oakland, CA shows how any family can create success when they work on communication and connection, and a monogamy agreement that works for them.
Families no longer fit into a restrictive mold of Mother, Father, 2.3 kids and this family is sharing with the world what the power of intention and communication can create. All three share the responsibilities of parenting including diaper changes, bedtime rituals, and even breastfeeding each other’s babies. Co-parenting is not a new concept in poly relationships and these three are making it work.
Like most couples opening their hearts to non-monogamy, Dani and Melinda were worried about jealousy. With time and empathy, they came to realize that the threesome was a great fit and there were benefits to having three in a marriage, three parents in a family. The trio has faced disapproval from friends and family, some of which thought their relationship was just about kinky sex.
The trio plans to raise their children with the same transparent love that brought them together. They feel that poly parenting is great for bonding not just between the parents but the children too. When one partner is sick or tired, either of the other partners can help with the children instead of the responsibility all falling on one person. Additionally, the diversity in parenting styles ensures the children will be exposed to a wide variety of relationships.
What do you think? Can a polyamorous village really create a happy family for children? I want to hear your thoughts. Write to me and I will publish your comments in my blog.
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