Are you finding yourself feigning a headache to get out of having sex with your lover? Has the honeymoon phase disappeared long ago? I have good news for you: you aren’t doomed to be stuck a sexless marriage. I love … Read More
Did you know The Aztecs named avocados after testicles? Many foods are known to be aphrodisiacs or great for fun sexy times (whipped cream or chocolate covered strawberries anyone?). But how do they work? I recently contributed to an article … Read More
As the economy and job market struggles in the past 7 years, there’s been an increase in entrepreneurs and small businesses trying to find their slice of the financial pie. But the benefits of owning your own small business far … Read More
As therapists, our primary ethical guideline is do no harm. Our second is to honor our clients’ autonomy and freedom of choice. As healers, this becomes most important when working with clients around sexuality and sexual expression. Sex positivity is … Read More
Monica Lewinsky has been shamed and publicly humiliated for decades now. She was blamed for the president’s shameful humiliation and dragged through a media storm never before seen in this country when she admitted, or was forced to admit, that … Read More
Great sex just makes everything better — including your career. Research shows that people who have more sex at home with their partner are more successful at work and do better in their careers. There are lots of ways that … Read More
Anyone familiar with my work (Getting The Sex You Want or The New Monogamy) knows that a happy marriage full of love isn’t a magical fairytale like the culture tells us. If both partners are dedicated to giving to the … Read More
Some people are unclear about what sex therapists do. I am so happy that Dale Allen and Arden Donahue invited me to share my work as a sexologist and sex therapist. We shared some great tips and tools to open … Read More
Can we discover what we want and don’t want in our monogamy agreement through others’ experiences? Some learn by doing, some learn by watching others. If you’re in the 2nd group and in the habit of negotiating your monogamy agreement … Read More
When you are frustrated with your partner, communicating your feelings may be a good way to get it out. But sometimes we are afraid to talk to our partner about our needs. Discussing an unmet need or a problem with … Read More