How many people cheat? In 2002 studies revealed that 50-60% of married men and 45-55% of married women engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. That means about half of all men and women will have an affair at some point in their marriage.
Why do people stay? Sometimes an affair is a wake up call in a relationship. It can shake the very foundations of a commitment and many times that may be what it takes for a couple to pay attention and start working on their marriage or partnership.
Why would a spouse stay with a partner who has cheated? Just because someone betrays you doesn’t mean you stop loving them, and it doesnt necessarily mean they have stopped loving you either.
Good therapy can help couples move past forgiveness to a “new monogamy” and into a new future for the relationship. Finding the right kind of therapy, and a therapist that is a good fit for you can be tough. Contact me for help.
Dr Tammy Nelson, 203.438.3007 or tammy@tammynelson.org
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