When You’re the One Who Cheats – Special Workshop


Treating those engaging in infidelity can be challenging in the complex world we live in. The cheater finally has a voice in this exciting new book by Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy will share with you why cheaters have affairs and how to work with clients through the process of making choices with integrity.


When You’re The One Who Cheats Workshop

March 2, 2019 – 9 am – 5 pm

Held at : The Chicago School of Psychology – Washington, DC

When You're The One Who CheatsThe debut workshop based on the new infidelity book by Dr. Tammy Nelson!

The NY Times called Dr. Tammy Nelson “a renegade of couples therapy.”

The decision to cheat usually comes well before the actual adultery. Even if they tell themselves the cheating is impulsive – the affair has most likely been planned for a while. It’s rare for people to cheat without some prior consideration and without any forethought or planning. Often therapists and counselors struggle to handle the complexities of infidelity and we can get stuck looking judgmentally at affairs and those who engage in them. We may think that cheating is just wrong and should stop. But what if we examined the situation through a non-pathological lens, examining the reasons and choices surrounding the infidelity? What if we could look for the relationship growth that is possible in the wake of an infidelity?

Join the expert on adultery for a full day of training where you will learn a non-pathological view of cheating, its permutations, and how to help your clients evaluate the situation and their choices. There are choices within the cheater’s world and Dr. Nelson will help you learn how to guide cheaters through:

  • Deciding if they should end the affair or the marriage
  • Examining the reasons for engaging in infidelity
  • Recovering the power of choice in relationships
  • Simple exercises to reclaim personal integrity
  • How to make decisions that impact their future

When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need to Know  contains the real-life stories from cheaters. Their honesty and courage helped me gain perspective and understand the truth about infidelity – that it can be a way to stay in a marriage and a way to get out. This is a book designed for anyone having an affair or indiscretion of any kind and who is confused, unsure and looking for answers. As therapists we need a new perspective on how to ethically and compassionately work with clients on this all too common problem. The aim of infidelity counseling should be to help the cheating partner find clarity and make choices that create a joyful life that works.

Taught by: Dr. Tammy Nelson, infidelity expert

Designed for: Therapists, counselors, mental health practitioners seeking to develop their knowledge of the field of human sexuality.

Course Includes:  7 hours of training

7 AASECT CEs** available in these Core Knowledge Areas (CKAs): Sex Education: Sex Therapy:

Certified Sex and Couples Therapist (CSCT): Category

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Please check out our other Integrative Sex Therapy Institute courses happening during this session:


Feb 28 – 9:00 am – 5:00 pm

Mar 1 – 9:00 am – 12:00 noon

10 CEs; Required by AASECT

4 hr Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy

March 1, 2019; 1 pm – 5 pm (4 hours)

4 CEs; Required by ISTI for CSCT

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