Create the Relationship of Your Dreams

Are you ready to find more sexual satisfaction? Learn how to live in a deeper, more connected place at this vitalizing workshop led by licensed psychotherapist and sexuality and relationship expert Tammy Nelson, PhD. Tammy draws on years of clinical work and research on relationships, communication, eroticism and passion to create an empowering weekend where you will discover how to bring spiritual, emotional, and erotic growth into your life.


Find Intimacy for Your Self, Your Partner, and the World

with Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. on Oct 8-10, 2021

at The Art of Living Retreat Center, Boone, NC

Contact Facility for Info

To Register for this weekend retreat with 2 nights of lodging and meals, please visit The Art of Living Retreat Center website.


Relationships have their own intimate language; the way we show love or feel loved can be intimate, passionate, erotic. Our relationships can be a way to find pleasure or a way to feel relaxed and safe. For some, relationships can be a path to spiritual enlightenment and connection. And for many of us, our relationships are also a place of conflict and power struggle.

Even in the best of times, good relationships don’t just happen. It takes focus to improve not just your companionship and your daily life but the erotic part of your relationship. This is the sacred commitment of any partnership. The erotic energy is the key to feeling alive and passionate and happy. When your soul yearns for more depth, it is calling out for more intimacy and more erotic connection.

It is hard to tell the truth about what you want in a relationship. Telling the truth to another person is the nature of true intimacy. Talking about your desires and your fantasies can bring up shame and embarrassment. Learning to talk about what you need in a relationship means being able to discuss your sexuality and your erotic needs, not just to have better sex but to live at a deeper, more connected place.

In this workshop, we will focus on creating your most intimate, deep, and passionate desires and explore what it means to ask for your needs to be met. We will learn how to heal from past betrayal and resentment and let go of anger and frustration. We will define and enhance your fantasies and discover what it means to give and receive pleasure.

Based on years of clinical work and research with couples and sexuality, this workshop will help you to explore new dimensions of spiritual intimacy.

Intimacy is a sacred practice. You can start this practice with yourself, without a partner, with your clothes on. This workshop will honor the erotic space as a spiritual space, and will help you navigate the path to a more connected self, will help you to heal from the past, and create a new vision of a more sacred space for empathy and belonging.

You will learn:

  • what it takes to express your needs, share your desires, and improve your erotic life.
  • to access your fantasy life and feel comfortable sharing with a loving partner.
  • how your fantasies are formed and why you desire what you do
  • to increase pleasure, give pleasure, and receive pleasure that works for you
  • the definition of sexual empathy and how this influences your spiritual life
  • the difference between spiritual mate, companion, and erotic partner
  • the consequence of chosen monogamy and the anthropological effect on eroticism
  • the meaning of the monogamy continuum and how to rewrite a monogamy agreement
  • to understand sexual generosity and how to communicate in a way that reignites passion

This class is appropriate for couples and individuals looking to improve their erotic lives as well as therapists & health care professionals who want to learn to work with eroticism and spirituality.

NOTE: All sharing in this workshop is optional, there is no nudity or sexual contact between participants during the workshop. This workshop is a safe space run by a trained and licensed psychotherapist and certified sex therapist with over 30 years of experience.


Register for limited space in Create the Relationship of Your Dreams: Living in the Spirit of Intimacy

October 8-10, 2021


Your Program Session Times (subject to change)

Friday 7:30-9:00 pm

Saturday 9:30 am-12:30 pm;  2:00-4:00 pm

Sunday 9:30-11:30 am (Room check-out is 11 am; Luggage can be held at reception)

General Information

Arrival Day
4:00 pm Check-in begins; Rooms are ready by 4:00 pm, but if you arrive early we will hold your luggage at Reception.
6:00–7:00 pm Dinner
7:00–7:20 pm Guest Orientation Session (Venue: Dining Hall)

7:30–9:30 am Breakfast
12:00–2:00 pm Lunch (included on your departure day)
6:00–7:30 pm Dinner

Optional Activities
Apart from the activities in your program schedule, we offer the following optional complementary activities. (Please join only if your program schedule permits.)

Hatha Yoga Class

Mind and Meditation Session
Yoga Nidra
Property Tour
Guided Nature Walk
Guided Meditation Session
Meditative Chant/Kirtan

Ayurveda Spa Appointments (Additional Cost)
Hours: 9:00 am–6:30 pm daily
We invite you to also make reservations at our award-winning Shankara Ayurveda Spa prior to arrival in order to ensure availability. Please call 828-264-8382 for details.

Clay Studio Appointments (Additional Cost)
Our Clay Studio is open Thursday–Sunday; Hand-building classes and Throwing classes are available by appointment. Clay pieces can be glazed and shipped home as well (additional cost). Please contact our Front Desk to make an appointment.

Actual schedules and venues may vary; please confirm with Front Desk upon check-in.



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