Finally, a book for the cheater. Examine your reasons for adultery and some practical ways to examine adultery to find new options for your current relationships. Want more integrity? Stay true to who you are and what you want. It’s time to get real.

When you’re the one who cheats, it might feel like you have few options. Dr. Tammy Nelson wrote this book with you in mind.

Learn why it’s important to make conscious decisions, how to be less impulsive, and what you need to do to bring joy back. Get advice from an international expert on healing from infidelity and find answers to your deepest and most painful relationship questions.

When You’re The One Who Cheats is a guide for anyone who wants to face their truth and get on with the happiness of living.

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When You’re the One Who Cheats – Signed Copy
When You’re the One Who Cheats – Signed Copy

The cheater finally has a voice in this new book by Dr. Tammy Nelson. Learn why people cheat. Find out what to do about the affair. Decide when and if to tell your spouse.

It can be hard to end an affair. No matter what your friends tell you, cheating is a dilemma of choice. Here you can find expert advice on what to do and how to do it well.

If you decide you want to make your marriage work, Dr. Tammy helps you to handle your relationships with respect and integrity. Begin your healing process and start to move forward. Create a new future. You deserve a joyful life. Even cheaters have choices.

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When You’re the One Who Cheats – Softcover
When You’re the One Who Cheats – Softcover

The cheater finally has a voice in this new book by Dr. Tammy Nelson. Learn why people cheat. Find out what to do about the affair. Decide when and if to tell your spouse.

It can be hard to end an affair. No matter what your friends tell you, cheating is a dilemma of choice. Here you can find expert advice on what to do and how to do it well.

If you decide you want to make your marriage work, Dr. Tammy helps you to handle your relationships with respect and integrity. Begin your healing process and start to move forward. Create a new future. You deserve a joyful life. Even cheaters have choices.

$24.99 Select options