Shifting gender roles and cultural messages about sexuality have created “nice guys” who find it difficult to meet their partner’s desire for dominating, rough, kinky sex. What they don’t know is it is entirely healthy and empowering to discuss and realize fantasies within the context of a consensual negotiated framework.
Galen Fous shares a beautiful example from his work as a sex-positive sexuality counselor wherein both partners learn to embrace and encourage their erotic power. She learned how to openly and honestly share her desires with her partner and he learned how to harness his masculine power and balance the different aspects of their relationship.
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