How Do You Feel About Porn?
How do you feel about porn? I don’t mean whether or not you personally consume porn, but rather — do you approve of it? Are you okay if your partner watches it? Masturbates to it? Do you watch it? Is it … Read More
How do you feel about porn? I don’t mean whether or not you personally consume porn, but rather — do you approve of it? Are you okay if your partner watches it? Masturbates to it? Do you watch it? Is it … Read More
If you’re like me, you sleep with your cell phone next to your bed. You may even have a clock radio and/or a television in your bedroom. I know many of you work on your laptop sitting up propped on … Read More
Wow, just a few weeks ago, I earned the #43 spot on Feedspot’s Top 100 Psychotherapy Blog list. Now, I’m at #37 on their list of Top 100 Marriage Counseling blogs. Since marriage counseling is one of my specialties, I … Read More
A couple came to one of my couples retreats. She was the dragger. He was the dragee. She was nervous. He did not want to be there. We went around the room and the couples introduced themselves. Lots of people … Read More
I’m delighted to have recently made the list of Top 100 Psychotherapy Blogs on Feedspot. I am number 43, which puts me in the top 50. And I’m in excellent company. Some of the other blogs that made the list … Read More
Lots of couples go through it. Not everyone blogs about it. And very few post photos. In a recent piece by Yolonda Jones, both blog and photos show how powerful and poignant the process of recovering from an affair can … Read More
Which is Better: Monogamy or Nonmonogamy? Open marriages and polyamory are being hotly debated in the mainstream today. There are valid and viable reasons to stay monogamous and also many alternatives to traditional monogamy. The stereotypical perception of open marriage … Read More
The Internet is often brought up in couples conflicts and blamed for infidelity. There are more ways to cheat today than ever before. What Counts as Cheating? And each couple may define cheating differently. The types of infidelity can range … Read More
When men were surveyed in a study, they reported that they thought that “…it should take women no more than four minutes of direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm…” Anatomically, it takes women an average of eight to thirty … Read More
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have an affair? To kiss or have sex with someone other than your spouse? Have you ever longed for more variety? Have you thought about it, maybe even met someone, … Read More