Facing Reality, The New Monogamy

Facing Reality, The New Monogamy Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. Facing Reality, The New Monogamy http://www.alternet.org/vision/147468/facing_reality%2C_the_%22new_monogamy%22_is_keeping_relationships_together Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. My article has … Read More

Polarities in Israel

Somehow my life will never be the same after teaching here for two days – in Israel. Most of every moment I feel I have had some awakening – some new understanding about the polarities of relationships – and I … Read More

Couples Therapy Can Hurt Your Sex Life

Yes, you heard it here.  From the couple’s therapist herself.  But its true.  Most couples therapy focuses on dealing with the day to day conflicts of the companionship aspect of every day life.  This creates safety and decreases conflict – … Read More

Love in the Time of Facebook

An old friend came to see me today.  I hadnt seen him in at least 15 years.  We had connected through email, and stayed in touch recently through Facebook.  We exchanged pictures of our kids, texted a few times, talked … Read More

Love in the Time of Marriage

There are new books coming out this month, and new movies, all about marriage and commitment.  Movies and books in popularity right now include topics like – Cheating on your wife with your ex-wife; finding out your husband was cheating … Read More

Make Love – a Priority

Talking to your partner about their desires and learning what their inner fantasy is like is different than sharing yours – be curious about their inner erotic life.  Help them spark their interest in sex again by asking them what turns them … Read More

The Conflict Begins

The moment we commit to ‘forever’ to our partner, we RELAX into the relationship, and what happens?  We  immediately REGRESS.  We go back to what we have always known about FOREVER – which is probably your family.  All of your family … Read More

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