COUPLES RETREAT – GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT in MEXICO Casa de los Artistas, Boca de Tomatlan, near Puerto Vallarta, Mexico March 12-19, 2011 Using Imago Relationship therapy, this workshop will help you each feel … Read More
Facing Reality, The New Monogamy Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. Facing Reality, The New Monogamy http://www.alternet.org/vision/147468/facing_reality%2C_the_%22new_monogamy%22_is_keeping_relationships_together Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. My article has … Read More
From a reader: So what you are saying is that the New Monogamy means that I should tell my husband that we should start an open marriage? He really wants to go to a swingers club but I dont want … Read More
Somehow my life will never be the same after teaching here for two days – in Israel. Most of every moment I feel I have had some awakening – some new understanding about the polarities of relationships – and I … Read More
Yes, you heard it here. From the couple’s therapist herself. But its true. Most couples therapy focuses on dealing with the day to day conflicts of the companionship aspect of every day life. This creates safety and decreases conflict – … Read More
It’s April – beautiful Spring days full of new beginnings. New life. And new obstacles. I have new life brewing, in my attic. Baby squirrels apparently. Birthed by the community that has ripped their way through the siding into my … Read More
I taught a class today at a local college. There were four questions the students had, and the answers I gave them: 1. What exactly does it mean to be addicted to porn? When you use erotic imagery of … Read More
An old friend came to see me today. I hadnt seen him in at least 15 years. We had connected through email, and stayed in touch recently through Facebook. We exchanged pictures of our kids, texted a few times, talked … Read More
There are new books coming out this month, and new movies, all about marriage and commitment. Movies and books in popularity right now include topics like – Cheating on your wife with your ex-wife; finding out your husband was cheating … Read More
Talking to your partner about their desires and learning what their inner fantasy is like is different than sharing yours – be curious about their inner erotic life. Help them spark their interest in sex again by asking them what turns them … Read More