Monogamy vs. non-monogamy is a hot debate topic right now and anyone who’s familiar with my work around “New Monogamy” and affair recovery knows I would argue in favor of honesty. I don’t fall on one side or the other … Read More
Divorce doesn’t have to be a devastating, messy war and Michael Cheshire’s Open Letter to his now Ex-Wife is a beautiful example of how to honor and cherish a marriage and continue to love and respect your (ex)spouse for the … Read More
My heartfelt congratulations to my friend and colleague Dr Joe Kort on the release of his new book on male sexual fluidity, “Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? A Guide For Women Concerned about Their Men” (available on Amazon) … Read More
Narcissism in a partner can create emotional and behavioral patterns in a couple. Wendy Behary, the author of Disarming the Narcissist is an expert in treating the defenses and creating leverage to avoid power struggles in the treatment of couples … Read More
According to Bustle.com, social media has been linked to infidelity. Not a big surprise. The betrayed partner can feel betrayed by technology as intensely as they can by real life technology. But does this mean every person in a committed … Read More
I’m excited to share that sex therapist Dr. Neil Cannon will be joining me for a teleclass for clinicians focused on Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB). This is a gentle, non-shaming approach to help clients feel empowered and in … Read More
A new research study out of University of Denver indicates that behaviors tend to repeat from one relationship to another – cheaters are 3.5 times more likely to cheat again, those who were cheated on are more likely to be … Read More
Whether you’re new to Couples Therapy or shifting your approach, this new online course featuring guest experts from a variety of disciplines will round out therapeutic models and provide intervention strategies. Core Couples Therapy Interventions will focus on a non-pathological … Read More
The debate continues around the world. An article from The New Age online (South Africa) highlights a study by clinical psychologist Dr. David Ley that found no physiological side effects of using sexually explicit material. The author of the article … Read More
Couples talking candidly about infidelity before it occurs is an interesting study in emotional intimacy. Would you, could you, ask your partner, “What would you do if I cheated on you?” Show your partner this video then try it yourself… … Read More