Technology has completely changed the gaming field of relationships. There are so many options to connect with people; texting, tweets, FB chat, instant message, snapchat and many other technical, online options. It’s simple and quick to connect with people all … Read More
Statistics say that most relationships will face infidelity at some point. The question is, does it have to mean the relationship is over? Is it irreparable? I believe many couples can redefine their relationship after infidelity and make it work … Read More
Is the best way to make it work after an affair to totally end your relationship? Yes. But that doesn’t mean you cant make it work. Surprised? Check out this video I did for Kids In The House: Check out … Read More
A wife finds her husband looking at pornography. A husband learns that his wife has been sleeping with their neighbor. A woman admits to her new boyfriend that she still talks on the phone regularly with her ex. Which of … Read More
Working with Your Most Challenging Couples: Anger, Narcissism and Countertransference met today. Wendy Behary, LCSW, the Author of “Disarming the Narcissist… Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed” gave a fascinating presentation about how narcissists have a hard time maintaining intimacy … Read More
Last week I attended the Lifestyle Interventions Conference in Las Vegas. I talked about erotic recovery after an affair. There were a lot of questions after my talk about pornography and how erotic imagery on the computer can turn masturbation … Read More
I recently sat down with Rich Simon, Editor of the Psychotherapy Networker, to talk about how to help couples understand, define, and negotiate the personal boundaries of fidelity and betrayal. The interview is part of their new Webcast series: The … Read More
In my book, The New Monogamy, I say this is the first time in history that you can cheat on your partner lying in bed next to them. This article by Janet Steen in Salon “I’m Cheating On You Right … Read More
Ready to bridge the gap between traditional ideas about marriage, commitment, sexuality, and the realities of how couples live today? You can. Explore the cultural, economic, and demographic forces shaping contemporary relationships in an all-new 6-session Webcast series from Psychotherapy … Read More
Monogamy vs. non-monogamy is a hot debate topic right now and anyone who’s familiar with my work around “New Monogamy” and affair recovery knows I would argue in favor of honesty. I don’t fall on one side or the other … Read More