Are you finding yourself feigning a headache to get out of having sex with your lover? Has the honeymoon phase disappeared long ago? I have good news for you: you aren’t doomed to be stuck a sexless marriage. I love … Read More
Do you find yourself getting distracted when you’re supposed to be in a conversation with your partner? Does your partner seem more concerned with getting their chance to explain themselves than listening to you? Do either of you dredge up … Read More
Some people are unclear about what sex therapists do. I am so happy that Dale Allen and Arden Donahue invited me to share my work as a sexologist and sex therapist. We shared some great tips and tools to open … Read More
Many couples who come see me have experienced some betrayal in their relationship – a physical, emotional, or even financial betrayal can destroy the trust in the relationship, in each other. But trust is not about learning to trust your … Read More
Smart guys will hide or destroy all evidence, but there are a few signs that can’t be destroyed. The number one sign that someone is cheating on you is your intuition. Listen to your gut. It usually will steer you … Read More
Marriage today faces some incredible challenges, possibly more than ever before in history. Modern couples don’t just struggle with basic communication, sex and parenting issues. Now couples face the everyday roommate problems of living together PLUS the difficulties of the … Read More
Much of my work with couples is in the effort to save their marriage following infidelity, loss of sexual desire, or some other damage to intimacy. Sometimes, saving a marriage isn’t the best answer for one or both of the … Read More
Studies vary about why people have affairs. Some say it’s the high from lying and hiding, some say it’s purely about opportunity. But there are as many reasons to cheat as there are people. So what can we do to … Read More
There is nothing worse than coming home after a long day at work, only to immediately be pulled into a fight with your spouse over something that is so mundane—What’s even worse is when you don’t know why you’re fighting … Read More
In today’s world going to a therapist when your marriage is falling apart is like going to the Shaman or the healer in the old days when we lived in tribes, and the ancient elder held the key to lighting … Read More