My latest HuffingtonPost blog is devoted to couples who are suffering from lack of sexual desire following infidelity or a period of challenge in their relationship. Whether you were the cheater or the cheated upon, these six steps can help … Read More
A new study on the brains of people who appear hypersexual suggests that an increased sex drive may not be a mental disability or an addiction after all. Check out the full article and share your opinion with me on … Read More
I recently wrote an article for the Imago International Conference coming up in October 2013 where I talk about the changing institution of marriage, explicit vs implicit monogamy agreements, the nature of betrayal, and how we as relationship therapists can … Read More
I enjoyed this blog post by Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT so much that I asked her for permission to repost it in it’s entirety here for you. Rejection and breaking-up are especially hard for codependents. They can trigger hidden grief … Read More
Last month, a fabulous group joined me at the beautiful Chaminade Resort and Spa in Santa Cruz, California for my Creating Connected Couples retreat. We focused on building therapists’, coaches’ and healers’ comfort level and skill for helping couples increase … Read More
Tracy Sher over at pelvicguru.com has generously reviewed our upcoming teleseminar Just Relax! Understanding Sexual Pain & Anxiety. It was pre-recorded in two parts and will be available for download on June 11th. From Tracy’s review: “Often in the discussion … Read More
My dear friend and colleague Gina Ogden has once again published a remarkable book that will change how couple therapists approach their work. I had the honor of providing advance praise for the book. “Every therapist should read Expanding the … Read More
Yes, there will be a scholarly journal dedicated to the study of pornography and it’s relation to culture, economy, history, institutions, legal and social contexts. This is a great improvement for the field of human sexuality and I’m looking forward … Read More
In this intriguing article, Ruth Buczynski presents new research that shows partners of veterans returning from combat suffered as much physical stress response as their loved one. I wonder if this could be true for other types of psychological stress … Read More
Announcing a new opportunity to learn with me, LIVE in Washington DC. Erotic Recovery after Infidelity – Creating a New Monogamy What are the newest forms of therapy for treating affairs? What doesn’t work? Why are some forms of affair … Read More