Does Your Bedroom Need an Erotic Makeover?

If you’re like me, you sleep with your cell phone next to your bed. You may even have a clock radio and/or a television in your bedroom. I know many of you work on your laptop sitting up propped on … Read More

Sex After Kids

Is there such a thing as sex after kids? A lot of couples have a decrease in desire after the kids are born. Or there is a discrepancy, where one partner wants it more often than the other. Sometimes mom … Read More

I’m #37 in the Top 100 Marriage Counseling Blogs!

Wow, just a few weeks ago, I earned the #43 spot on Feedspot’s Top 100 Psychotherapy Blog list. Now, I’m at #37 on their list of Top 100 Marriage Counseling blogs. Since marriage counseling is one of my specialties, I … Read More

How to Turn the 7 Year Itch Into a Positive

You have heard of ‘Seven Year Itch.’ It’s a measurement of time that people throw around to suggest marriage goes downhill after the first seven years. The phrase is not based on anything psychological or scientifically sound, it is not … Read More

A Couples Retreat Was a Breakthrough Moment for My Relationship

A couple came to one of my couples retreats. She was the dragger. He was the dragee. She was nervous. He did not want to be there. We went around the room and the couples introduced themselves. Lots of people … Read More

Sex Therapists Uphold Civil Rights for ALL

Like so many of you, I was both saddened and outraged by the recent tragic events in Charlottesville. I am still confused by the President’s lack of moral clarity in condemning the violence. The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, … Read More

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