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Betrayal Trauma: Helping Couples Rebuild Connection (from PESI-UK)
Note: This was originally published at PESI-UK. You can read the original blog here. What are the tasks for couple therapy in the wake of...
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How Do You Shut Down Your Cheating Behavior?
When You’re the One Who Cheats is available from Amazon.com! bit.ly/whenyoucheat An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL...
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Married but Dating
An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL Publishing 2019 By Dr Tammy Nelson As an exploratory exercise, and to do research for...
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How to Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair – Five Things to Think About
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) The following is an exercise to help you prepare to disclose an...
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Before You Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) If you’re having an affair, and you want to disclose the affair to...
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The Casual Dating Affair
The “Casual Dating Affair” is one that evolves slowly. It sneaks up on you. Perhaps this has happened to you. You’re only going out for...
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Cuffing Season Leads People to Stray
Ashley Madison recently revealed that more men sign up for their online dating site during the month of October than any other month of...
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Understanding Infidelity & How to Recover From It
Defining infidelity seems simple. Having sex with someone outside of your committed partnership means cheating, right? But today an...
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When Do Cheaters Talk to Their Lovers?
Twenty five to sixty five percent of people cheat at some point in their marriage. The results of infidelity research are non-conclusive:...
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Recovering from Infidelity is a Process, Not an Event
Lots of couples go through it. Not everyone blogs about it. And very few post photos. In a recent piece by Yolonda Jones, both blog and...
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How Do You Define Cheating?
There are more ways to cheat today than ever before. What Counts as Cheating? And each couple may define cheating differently. The types...
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Survive the Affair & Save Your Relationship In Three Steps
#infidelity #recoveringafterinfidelity #relationshiprepair #survivinganaffair
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Be Stronger After an Affair
Infidelity happens for many reasons. It can be painful, confusing and hard to recover if you choose to stay together after the affair....
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After Infidelity, Save Your Relationship in Three Steps
Can you recover after your partner has an affair? There are three simple steps that all couples who survive an affair move through to...
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Is Cyber Sex Ethical?
But some couples today are finding ways to use cyber-sex to avoid distancing and create more intimacy in their relationships. Read the...
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Can Your Relationship Really Survive Infidelity?
You thought your relationship with your partner was perfect. Happily ever after wasn’t just a dream, it was your reality. Then, suddenly,...
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3 Steps To Ending An Affair
My latest article on Huffington Post addresses what to do when you want to end an affair and move on: You are still hiding the affair. In...
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