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New Telecourse for IMAGO therapists: Recovering from Affairs

Would you like to help couples rebuild trust, heal their sex life and work towards negotiating a new shared vision of monogamy after an...

Getting the Sex you Want

Create a Spiritual Connection with Your Beloved – short video with Michael Bernard Beckwith

Imagine feeling so comfortable with and connected to your beloved that the walls between you all come down . . . and a deeper level of...

Getting the Sex you Want

Picking up yoga could help your marriage

It’s no secret that yoga is wonderful for physical and mental health – facilitating flexibility, strength, calm, and relaxation. Did you...

The New Monogamy

The Ups and Downs of Open Relationships

Relationships take on a wide variety of configurations including monogamous, polyamorous, sexually non-monogamous, emotionally...

Getting the Sex you Want

Did you meet online?

More couples than ever before are meeting online, not only for a one time hook up, for an online affair or for mutual masturbation, but...

Infidelity & Affairs

Dating after divorce: advice for single parents

With the divorce rate in America hovering around 50%, there are many single parents who are back on the dating circuit. Blended families...

Getting the Sex you Want

Its not too late! Join us in Mexico for a couples retreat in Paradise

More couples than ever before are able to repair their conflict with an expert in a couples retreat. A week long retreat can help you...

Infidelity & Affairs

Pornography in the Internet age

The internet has drastically changed how we interact with our fellow humans, including sexually. Prior to the internet the only way to...

Infidelity & Affairs

Should monogamy be relabeled as a religion?

I am intrigued by Justin Natoli’s idea of reframing monogamy as a religion. The belief that complete sexual and social monogamy is the...

Infidelity & Affairs

Should we work harder to be happier?

The All-or-Nothing Marriage Does marriage today create an expectation that we should work harder to be happier? Couples therapy helps...

Infidelity & Affairs

Real world example of recovery after infidelity

A strong example of a couple forging the waters of negotiating a new monogamy agreement and healing after the pain and trauma of...

Getting the Sex you Want

Does equality mean less sex?

With the feminist movement, women joining the work force, and growing equality within the household, modern relationships resemble a...

Infidelity & Affairs

Trust shapes how we love and how we learn, why we succeed

In every relationship, in every moment, issues of trust permeate. We often don’t think about it until our trust has been broken. I often...

Getting the Sex you Want

New Video series for KidsInTheHouse.com

Advice on how to have decent sex when you are struggling to conceive Advice on how great sex even when you are an exhausted new mom...

For Therapists

Ending Your Marriage With Integrity

The fact of the matter is that sometimes divorce really is the best option for ending the internal and external conflict. And you can end...

For Therapists

The happiest couple is…

I wanted to share with you an article from Huffington Post that touches on a lot of what I address in my work as a sex and relationship...

Getting the Sex you Want

Put down your gadgets, become more human in 2014

This blog entry from Good Clean Love resonated with me as I prepare for my upcoming training on Monogamy in the Internet Age at the...

Getting the Sex you Want

Just a few spots left in our Couples Retreat in Paradise!

Revitalize yourself and your relationship… Be inspired to new dimensions of soulful depth… Explore sexual energy, erotic expansion &...

Getting the Sex you Want

Put The Sex Back Into Your Relationship

“Studies show that couples who have an active and passionate sex life stay together longer, report less conflict and divorce less often,”...

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Monogamy in the Internet Age

In the age of sexting, online sex, pornography, and all of the varieties and types of internet affairs, how do we as therapists help...

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