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Failed relationships are inevitable

Many view divorce, or the ending of a relationship, as a failure. I like to reframe that thinking into a changing of the relationship....

For Therapists

Think a good divorce is rare?

It’s actually not, and you can play an important role in helping couples who have decided on divorce, to end their union with civility,...

For Therapists

Quick Tip for Therapists: Working with Couples in Non-Traditional Relationships

How do you work with and understand couples who have a non-traditional lifestyle that may not align with your own? I answered this...

Infidelity & Affairs

John Bradshaw’s Inner Child on the Imago Think Tank

I did an Imago Think Tank interview last week with John Bradshaw – one of my heroes. If you have ever heard the term “inner child” or...

Getting the Sex you Want

Is Monogamy Over?

TIME Magazine posed this important question to content creators and thought leaders for yesterday’s Question Everything issue. It’s an...

The New Monogamy

New Monogamy: Open Marriage, Good Marriage?

Traditional life-long monogamy isn’t for everyone, and many couples are thriving in new monogamy agreements, polyamory, open marriages. I...

Infidelity & Affairs

Tammy on the Radio: Redefining Your Relationship After an Affair on RadioMD

If you’re in a relationship, you’ve likely made promises to stay faithful to one another. However, infidelity occurs in over half of all...

Infidelity & Affairs

OpenMinded.com: the Dating Site for ‘Ethical Cheaters’

Following the hacking of Ashley Madison, the famed dating site for cheaters, Katherine Rosman, journalist for The New York Times, asks,...

For Therapists

I will be presenting at the SSSS Annual Meeting in November!

I’m honored to announce that I will be presenting at The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality’s 2015 Annual Meeting, BEYOND...

For Therapists

The Intentional Divorce: Helping Couples Let Go with Dignity

I’ve always made it my primary goal to save the marriage, if at all possible; however, I’ve often felt that I was working harder at it...

Infidelity & Affairs

Tammy talking Affairs on Australia Counselling podcast

After Ashley Madison got hacked, the blogosphere is buzzing with discussion about affairs and infidelity. I was honored to be invited to...

Gender

Interview With Grace; Transgender Rights and SCOTUS

My latest blog for Huffington Post in my series on Transgender Men and Women; And the People that Love them, Work with them and Fight...

Getting the Sex you Want

My thoughts on Relationships, on The Academy of Miracles podcast

I’m honored to share with you that I’m this week’s featured guest on Elloa Atkinson’s podcast, The Academy of Miracles! Elloa and I...

Gender

Celebrating freedom (to form family) this July 4th!

After the historic Supreme Court decision on marriage equality June 26th, many families across our nation are celebrating their freedom...

Infidelity & Affairs

Three reasons to dump them if they’re cheating

Breaking up isn’t always the answer. But there are times you should cut a cheating partner loose. In my latest blog for YourTango, I...

Infidelity & Affairs

Is your partner having an emotional affair?

Emotional affairs are just as damaging to a marriage, if not more so, than strictly sexual affairs. Recovering a marriage after an...

Infidelity & Affairs

Is it possible to get past an affair?

Hilary Clinton recently announced she is running for President. Many people still remember when Bill Clinton was President and had his...

Infidelity & Affairs

Is infidelity in your genes or in your pocketbook?

Researchers have been debating whether monogamy and infidelity are “natural” for years. In my own book, The New Monogamy, I referenced...

Gender

Caitlyn Jenner’s debut: Being transgender is not a choice – Wearing a fake persona is

Vanity Fair announced yesterday that they will be releasing a photo spread in their July issue of the new Caitlyn Jenner, formerly known...

Parenting

Divorce doesn’t mean it’s the end

There’s a certain script many divorcing couples adhere to through the process of separation, divorce, and healing. It goes like this: I...

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