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Failed relationships are inevitable
Many view divorce, or the ending of a relationship, as a failure. I like to reframe that thinking into a changing of the relationship....
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Think a good divorce is rare?
It’s actually not, and you can play an important role in helping couples who have decided on divorce, to end their union with civility,...
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Quick Tip for Therapists: Working with Couples in Non-Traditional Relationships
How do you work with and understand couples who have a non-traditional lifestyle that may not align with your own? I answered this...
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John Bradshaw’s Inner Child on the Imago Think Tank
I did an Imago Think Tank interview last week with John Bradshaw – one of my heroes. If you have ever heard the term “inner child” or...
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Is Monogamy Over?
TIME Magazine posed this important question to content creators and thought leaders for yesterday’s Question Everything issue. It’s an...
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New Monogamy: Open Marriage, Good Marriage?
Traditional life-long monogamy isn’t for everyone, and many couples are thriving in new monogamy agreements, polyamory, open marriages. I...
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Tammy on the Radio: Redefining Your Relationship After an Affair on RadioMD
If you’re in a relationship, you’ve likely made promises to stay faithful to one another. However, infidelity occurs in over half of all...
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OpenMinded.com: the Dating Site for ‘Ethical Cheaters’
Following the hacking of Ashley Madison, the famed dating site for cheaters, Katherine Rosman, journalist for The New York Times, asks,...
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I will be presenting at the SSSS Annual Meeting in November!
I’m honored to announce that I will be presenting at The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality’s 2015 Annual Meeting, BEYOND...
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The Intentional Divorce: Helping Couples Let Go with Dignity
I’ve always made it my primary goal to save the marriage, if at all possible; however, I’ve often felt that I was working harder at it...
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Tammy talking Affairs on Australia Counselling podcast
After Ashley Madison got hacked, the blogosphere is buzzing with discussion about affairs and infidelity. I was honored to be invited to...
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Interview With Grace; Transgender Rights and SCOTUS
My latest blog for Huffington Post in my series on Transgender Men and Women; And the People that Love them, Work with them and Fight...
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My thoughts on Relationships, on The Academy of Miracles podcast
I’m honored to share with you that I’m this week’s featured guest on Elloa Atkinson’s podcast, The Academy of Miracles! Elloa and I...
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Celebrating freedom (to form family) this July 4th!
After the historic Supreme Court decision on marriage equality June 26th, many families across our nation are celebrating their freedom...
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Three reasons to dump them if they’re cheating
Breaking up isn’t always the answer. But there are times you should cut a cheating partner loose. In my latest blog for YourTango, I...
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Is your partner having an emotional affair?
Emotional affairs are just as damaging to a marriage, if not more so, than strictly sexual affairs. Recovering a marriage after an...
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Is it possible to get past an affair?
Hilary Clinton recently announced she is running for President. Many people still remember when Bill Clinton was President and had his...
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Is infidelity in your genes or in your pocketbook?
Researchers have been debating whether monogamy and infidelity are “natural” for years. In my own book, The New Monogamy, I referenced...
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Caitlyn Jenner’s debut: Being transgender is not a choice – Wearing a fake persona is
Vanity Fair announced yesterday that they will be releasing a photo spread in their July issue of the new Caitlyn Jenner, formerly known...
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Divorce doesn’t mean it’s the end
There’s a certain script many divorcing couples adhere to through the process of separation, divorce, and healing. It goes like this: I...
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