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Trauma, Affair, & Recovery: You Are Not Alone
When you discover that your partner cheated on you, it can feel like your world is ending. You rewrite the whole history of your...
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What Does Andy Want from His Chaotic Life?
What does it mean to live in chaos? Are some people just more prone to self-sabotage? If you haven’t caught it yet, I am the first guest...
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How Do You Shut Down Your Cheating Behavior?
When You’re the One Who Cheats is available from Amazon.com! bit.ly/whenyoucheat An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL...
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Married but Dating
An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL Publishing 2019 By Dr Tammy Nelson As an exploratory exercise, and to do research for...
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What If You Could Have It All?
An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL Publishing 2019 By Dr Tammy Nelson “Twenty percent of adults have practiced...
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How to Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair – Five Things to Think About
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) The following is an exercise to help you prepare to disclose an...
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Before You Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair
(An Excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats by Dr. Tammy Nelson) If you’re having an affair, and you want to disclose the affair to...
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The Casual Dating Affair
The “Casual Dating Affair” is one that evolves slowly. It sneaks up on you. Perhaps this has happened to you. You’re only going out for...
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Vicinity Attraction & Work Spouses
Have you ever developed a close relationship with a colleague who you called your “work spouse?” Have you ever thought about allowing (or...
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Cuffing Season Leads People to Stray
Ashley Madison recently revealed that more men sign up for their online dating site during the month of October than any other month of...
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Do You Feel Jealous If Your Partner’s Eyes Wander?
Are you like a zebra finch? Zebra finches are social songbirds and, according to science, are sexually monogamous. A mated female zebra...
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Worried Your Sexual Behavior Might Be Out of Control?
In the wake of the #MeToo movement, many people are asking if sex addiction is real. Is out of control sexual conduct and compulsive or...
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Understanding Infidelity & How to Recover From It
Defining infidelity seems simple. Having sex with someone outside of your committed partnership means cheating, right? But today an...
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How Do You Really Feel About Open Relationships?
Photo by Alexander Solodukhin on Unsplash Open relationships are becoming more common every day. They’re also gradually becoming more...
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Does VR Porn Excite or Alarm You?
Photo by Samuel Zeller on Unsplash Have you heard of virtual reality pornography? This innovative technology allows you to totally...
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When Do Cheaters Talk to Their Lovers?
Twenty five to sixty five percent of people cheat at some point in their marriage. The results of infidelity research are non-conclusive:...
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Recovering from Infidelity is a Process, Not an Event
Lots of couples go through it. Not everyone blogs about it. And very few post photos. In a recent piece by Yolonda Jones, both blog and...
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How Do You Define Cheating?
There are more ways to cheat today than ever before. What Counts as Cheating? And each couple may define cheating differently. The types...
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Could an Open Relationship Be Good For You?
Lots of people experience similar thoughts. But what if you could follow through on some of those feelings with the consent of your...
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Survive the Affair & Save Your Relationship In Three Steps
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