How do I know if I’m a Sex Addict?

There are a lot of conflicting ideas out there in the press about sex addiction right now.  Is it real?  Does it exist? If you are addicted to sex or sexual behaviors, you probably dont care what we, the professionals, … Read More

Surviving Infidelity

So many couples experience infidelity – more than half.  So if you are reading this and wondering if you are alone in your pain, and in your anger, you’re not.  If you or your spouse has been unfaithful, its not … Read More

Are you addicted to Porn? Take this simple Test.

Pornography Dependency Syndrome/ Pornography Addiction Assessment    This is a quick unscientific questionnaire that may help someone to identify themselves as addicted to sex or suffering from sexual dependency syndrome.    1. Are you hiding the fact that you are … Read More

What would you do with Tiger?

If you were treating Tiger Woods and his wife, would you have the tools to help? There are many reasons someone experiences hyper sexuality.  The term Sexual Dependency Syndrome (SDS) as Dr Joe Kort describes in his recent newsletter, (go … Read More

Is Sex Addiction Real?

by Dr. Tammy Nelson   Is there such a thing as sex addiction?  Can someone become compulsive about sex, using it to avoid feelings and responsibilities?  Yes.  Can sex be a way to numb out and avoid being in a … Read More

Is Tiger a Sex Addict?

How can you Tell?  by Tammy Nelson   Take a look here:  http://www.yourtango.com/200949259/tiger-woods-sex-addict   In an article in Tango, Dr. Tammy Nelson is interviewed as a Tango expert, along with a few other experts in sex addiction and infidelity.  For the … Read More

Love in the Time of Facebook

An old friend came to see me today.  I hadnt seen him in at least 15 years.  We had connected through email, and stayed in touch recently through Facebook.  We exchanged pictures of our kids, texted a few times, talked … Read More

Love in the Time of Marriage

There are new books coming out this month, and new movies, all about marriage and commitment.  Movies and books in popularity right now include topics like – Cheating on your wife with your ex-wife; finding out your husband was cheating … Read More

Exercise: Sex Date

Make a date with your partner for sex. Four days prior to the date, use small acts to create anticipation for the big night. For example, show your partner physical affection at least three times the first day. Attempt to … Read More